Friday, April 10, 2020

Siblings Day

     Today is national siblings day so it's time to brag about my siblings. 

     I have three brothers. I'm the oldest in the family. My first brother was born 11 months after I was born so we are Irish twins. My second brother was born 5 years after me. My third brother was born 15 years after I was born.

     We were all very different. The tallest is about 6'4".  The shortest about 5' 8" 

    I'm the only one who moved away. 

     Our step mother called us Emil's boys . 

     We have one sibling who we have lived without for 67 years. Doreen sadly left us in 1953.


      Emil and his boys at his 90th birthday.

    Doreen age 11.

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  1. That is a very special picture of you and your brothers with your Dad! I'm sorry about the loss of your sister. She was a very pretty young lady. That is such a difficult thing for a family to deal with the loss of a child.

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    1. My parents were never able to come to terms with their loss.

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  2. We don't have a siblings day here, interesting to read about your family. The expression "Irish twins" was also not familiar to me. Must be fun to have so many brothers.

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    1. There are other terms for children born close together as 3 barn with in 2 years.

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  3. I have no siblings. Sue has three. One is gone to meet his maker. Another is gone into her own world of miserly. Sue and the other, the youngest, are quite close.

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    1. Sad when families spread out. Sadder yet when there are differences.

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  4. Hello, wonderful family and siblings photo. It is sad that Doreen passed away so young. I have 2 sisters and one brother. Have a happy day and weekend!

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    1. My parents never were able to come to terms with the loss.

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  5. Well, happy siblings day to you, Red! You were very lucky to have such a large family. Thank you for sharing them with me on this special day.

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  6. 1953 - that was the year I was born and co-incidentally my mother was also called Doreen. Why did your Doreen die Red?

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    1. She was diagnosed as rheumatic fever but today I think it would have been Kawasaki's disease.

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  7. That’s a great photo of Emil and the lads.

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    1. Our step mother took over when we were adults. She was very astute and handled things very well.

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  8. Lovely to see you and your siblings. It is sad that you lost your sister so long ago.

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    1. Sadly as we've grown older we haven't been able to spend as much time together. we have our own families.

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  9. Glad to have some background on your family! Can you share more with us about your sister?

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    1. She was diagnosed with rheumatic fever . I think today it would be called Kawasaki's disease. She was sick for only two weeks.

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  10. We don't have siblings day here. I have never heard of it. fine looking family photo, Red.

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    1. There are a few more terms for various groupings of siblings.

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  11. I always enjoy learning about people's families.

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    1. Each family has a very different history.

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  12. Nice photo of your dead and his boys. Your sister will always be missed...so sad when siblings die so young.

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    1. Dad had just gone in the nursing home as he had parkinson's.

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  13. So sad to lose a sibling! As sad as losing a child, but for a lot longer time.

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    1. We found out that we were not the only one's with a loss. Many other families lost children.

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  14. I hadn't heard the term Irish twins before; I'll have to remember that.

    The loss of your sister in such a way must have been awful for your family.

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  15. Emil's boys look to be having a high old time at his 90th birthday.
    I have no siblings. Just me, I seem to have managed without them... As a person in my late teens I spent a lot of time with a family of six, where I learned a lot about family dynamics. Arguments, taking sides, trickery and above all, lots of laughter and fun.
    Your sister had a lovely smile. I recall you writing about her previously and how devastated your parents were when she died.
    Alphie

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  16. That is such a wonderful family photo. I'm also an Irish twin. I was born 11 months after one of my brothers.

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  17. Sorry about your sister. A long time ago, but still ... I had an older brother who died in 1964, and I always wonder, how would my life be different if I still had an older brother?

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  18. It is always special when someone whom we know in Blogland but really know little about, lets us into his (or her) life some more. Thank you.

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  19. You're a nice looking family of men. How sad that you lost your sister. It's fun to meet a blogging friend's family. Thinking about your last post...I'm tired of being locked in too. I don't do much going anyway but it's nice to know you're free go if you want to. I do want us all to be safe and get through this though.

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  20. this is heartwarming sharing dear Red!

    how nice it must have felt to your dear Father to have all of you by his side ! he is fortunate to have his kids beside him at this part of age and so are you guys !
    you did not mention any sibling by your step mom so i assume you don't have any .
    your late sister looked precious little princess ,i can relate to your sorrow as my elder brother who was 4 years elder than me died at age of thirteen ,i have eldest brother though but i miss having brother like true brother sometimes

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