Friday, July 3, 2026

FAMILY GATHERINGS

             My family background is German except for my mother. Mom had to tough it out at family gatherings because when the family was together, they spoke German. The family was good to her and tried to keep her in the discussion.

            My Grandfather was born in 1864. I was born in 1939. That means that he was 74 when I was born. He was very happy as I was his first grandson. 74 was  quite old to become a Grandpa.

          Here I am when my grandpa sees me for the first time


                Most of the family would get together two or three times a summer. We only lived 8 miles apart but because of transportation and roads we didn't get to Grandma and Grandpas very often.

        Now skip on a few years. At the family gathers the men visited in the living room. The women stayed in the kitchen. The girl grandchildren were nice the little girls. The boy grand children ran all over Grandpa's very neat farm yard. Grandpa was out on the yard with us trying to protect his neat yard from the grandsons who ran all over the place. Grandpa had  special way of piling his would. We would crawl over his neat wood pile and mess it up. He was probably watching us to see that we didn't harm ourselves.

      So I often think about what he thought about his first loving grandson and that grandson who later ran over his neat farm yard.

      Grandpa lived at our house for much if his last ten years.

15 comments:

  1. It’s a good summer memory to share.

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  2. I'm sure you were the joy of his life when you were born. It's funny how girls are 'good' or at least, quiet, and boys have the need to charge all over the place.

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  3. These are such nice memories, Red. It's good that you record them here for your own family to have.

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  4. thank you for sharing this lovely story dear Red !
    i really enjoyed it because it has my favorite topic "grandparents" :)
    i could spent some early years of my life with my grand parents and i think it was most beautiful part of my life .
    i believe your grandpa loved you so much and looked at you while you were running on wood piles if you can get hurt
    grandparents can be little cranky because of age and age related issues but it doesn't stop them loving you :)

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  5. A first grandson … what joy, what pride,
    Grandpa’s heart must have swelled inside.
    Then came the years, the yard, the noise,
    and Grandpa learned the risk of boys!
    😊

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  6. I love the mental pictures of that young rascal....did the call you Red back then?

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  7. Grandpa is beaming with little Red!
    I'm sure he loved you climbing on the wwodpile, that's what kids are supposed to do!

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  8. Boys had more fun back then. Fast forward 40 years or so and my daughter would be playing with the boys.

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  9. Good memories Red! Always glad you share them, photos too.

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  10. It is so nice that you can remember your grandfather and how he featured in your life. How was he in his final ten years?

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  11. So beautiful memories...Kiss Andreja!

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  12. Great memories Red! As a child I remember big family gatherings, they do not happen lately. Much of the older generation are gone now.
    Take care, enjoy your day and have a great week ahead.

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  13. What a wonderful memory and thanks for sharing.

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  14. I'm glad you could have your grandad with you for the last years of his life. That was truly special.

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