My 81 year old brother found a girlfriend a while ago or maybe some older lady found a boyfriend. I'm not sure which. It's a happy time for both of them. They got permission or a thumbs up from their kids. So they're jumping through the proper hoops.
One thing my brother said to me is, "Why do they make it so hard for old guys to get married?" The statement took me by surprise.
He went on to tell me what some of the difficult issues are. If you get married, benefits from your previous spouse are cancelled. So CPP(Canada pension plan,, OAS(Old Age Security) are cancelled from the deceased spouse's account. Many seniors depend on these benefits to some extent. The benefits are also cancelled if you live common law and they find you.
I suppose in some cases it would be a sizable loss depending on the previous spouses status.
So this was something that was a big surprise to me.