Thursday, December 23, 2021

CHRISTMAS PAST

        When I was a child in the 40's our Christmas Day  was a major celebration. It was very different from  what happens today.

        What I remember is after the war. The economy was better and there were no more ration restrictions. So we were able to enjoy things that were not available in the recent past. 

        There were many preparations and these were entirely my mother's efforts. There was a tremendous amount of baking done pre Christmas. Christmas cakes took the biggest effort. Many other things were baked: shortbread, ginger bread cookies, Chinese chews. matrimonial cake, mince meat pies, Christmas puddings , fudge and other things that my brothers will have to remind me about.  As you can see my Mom did a tremendous amount of Christmas baking.

      The merchandise in our local stores was quite limited. Clothes and many other items were ordered from the Eaton's catalog. There was usually one big parcel that came from Eatons and we were not allowed to see any of it so this is where she got our Christmas presents. 

      Before the economy picked up the three of us received a tricycle for Christmas. Another Christmas we got a dog. After the war they were able to afford individual gifts for us. We usually got a book, a toy , a game. or some clothes. We also got some small gifts from grandparents and Aunts and uncles.  There was much excitement over these gifts. So much excitement that we were sometimes awake and out before 5:00 AM. We were sent back to bed but were still up early to open gifts. It was bedlam with 4 little kids. 

     Our Christmas day activities were huge. We celebrated with Mom's cousin. There were 12 people altogether. If Mom had Christmas , her cousin Margaret did the same on New year's day. The next year it would be reversed.

     I grew up in a rural community. Our roads were blocked with snow in the winter and we had very old cars. As a result winter travel was with horses. Our cousins would arrive just before noon and the horses were put in the barn.

     The big meal took place at noon. 

     Preparing the Christmas meal took tremendous effort. Turkey was the main item on the menu. They only grew 25 lb turkeys at that time! So we had stuffing , gravy, mashed potato, creamed corn and another vegetable. We were not able to get cranberries . Lettuce and other produce was not sold in our local stores so we didn't have salads. The country stores didn't have coolers and no electricity so they didn't sell produce. We sometimes had a jellied salad. These meals were prepared with wood stoves. There was no refrigeration or coolers and no running water. But these meals were some of the best that I remember eating. 

     We all sat down together to eat. Food was passed around in large bowls. Generous second helpings were common. 

     And then there was dessert! Christmas pudding and mince meat pie. Yes both of them at the same meal. 

    So our Christmas day was so huge that I have to describe it in two posts. 

38 comments:

  1. Hello,
    Wonderful memories of Christmas past. The big family dinners were always delicious, with too much food. Merry Christmas to you and your family.

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    1. I think we have many good childhood memories.

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  3. What wonderful memories! I hope you both have a great Christmas this year too.

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    1. We had great food and were allowed to run around an have fun.

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  4. Merry Christmas Red.

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  5. Wow, Red, that is quite an enormous undertaking. And your mom and aunt did it every year, it seems. You partook of a wonderful tradition that doesn't exist any more. Thanks for the peek into the past! :-)

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  6. These are wonderful memories, Red! They remind me of Christmas when I was a kid and how we would be so excited to get up and open our gifts! We would travel to Grandma and Grandpa's house for dinner with our cousins and we would sit crowded around the big table passing the serving dishes around. Thanks so much for bringing these sweet memories back to me this morning! Merry Christmas to you!

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    1. They crammed a lot of people in one table.

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  7. Great post with your incredible memory. Merry Christmas.

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  8. I love reading about your Christmas from so long ago. How different it was there and how well your family filled it with good cheer, lots and lots of food, and wonderful presents.

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    1. Our parents had to work very hard to make a good life for us. Our parents went through the depression and had nothing.

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  9. I think it's because of my similar rural background that I still do much of the old stuff, the baking, the big family meal, just making a big deal out of Christmas. I loved this post, Red.

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    1. The group can not be too big or too small to work well. My brothers still live in the area but they do not have Christmas together because each family is too large.

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  10. Great post Red! Brings back similar memories of those early family Christmases!

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  11. Excellent post and thanks for sharing your special Christmas memories. Wishing you and your family a Happy Christmas.

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    1. We were live wires fueled with all kinds of candy.

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  12. Great to read your memories of your childhood Christmases. Those were the days, eh?

    I like the new font color better than the light blue. I like the darker tone even better that you used a couple of posts back. I'm not prejudiced; it's my macular degeneration that is the problem.

    A Happy Christma to you, Red, all the way from Georgia USA.

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    1. I am very sorry to hear that you have macular degeneration. all the best to you on that journey.

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  13. Thank you for sharing this slice of life gone by. I never tire of reading such accounts.

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  14. merry Christmas! Great memories!!

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  15. Thank you for sharing your Christmas memories:) Happy Christmas!

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    1. Thanks and I hope you had a great Christmas day.

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  16. How wonderful it is to read about your Christmas as a child! I hope you and your lovely wife have a beautiful and happy Christmas!

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    1. Sometimes I look back and find it hard to believe that some things actually happened.

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    1. Thankyou and I hope you also had a great day.

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  18. Thanks for sharing your Christmas adventures from your childhood. Interesting how the store didn't have a fridge. My Mom made mincemeat cookies. Merry Christmas to you! Linda in Kansas

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    1. Thanks for visiting my blog and leaving Christmas wishes.

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  19. Have a wonderful Christmas with your Micromanager tomorrow, Red. Like you, our children and grandchildren are very far away. However, we'll be able to ZOOM with them later in the day.

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    1. We didn't do face to face today but talked on the phone.

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  20. i loved the way you painted the Christmas from your childhood dear Red !

    i felt and i really felt comfortable to imagine part of such warm cozy Celebration because it reminded me our Eid celebration when i was little girl .i really miss those huge family gatherings ,ladies helping each other with preparations of food and other arrangements of the house meanwhile .
    since cable tv and bursting media exposure has blast on over senses everyone fell into fever of self right and privacy and there is hardly any genuine generosity or selfless relationship which is sad !
    people are getting away from themselves and from each other as well ,i d don't see any good in such advancement where basic human traits are lost just for the sake of modernity .

    thank you for recreating that era for us ! it was beautiful happening on planet i believe

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