Tuesday, February 13, 2024

MATERNAL GRANDPARENTS

       My maternal grandparents were born in the 1880's and raised in the south of England. Grandma made some income by sewing and grandpa was a butcher , not the kind of butchers we have today. At that time there was no refrigeration. Grandpa went from farm to farm and butchered for farmers. This job was neither lucrative nor steady. Then a depression hit in England and they were very poor.

     A church group in Canada agreed to sponsor them to emigrate to Canada. They were set up as market gardeners but this was a poor choice of business. Grandpa loved gardening but it was not enough to keep the wolf from the door. 

    During the second world war he was a janitor on an air force training base. After that he drove a delivery truck for a bakery.

    In the late 40's they moved to the west coast where Grandpa again found employment as a janitor. He worked well into his 70's. He said when he got tired he sat in the bath room for a break. 

    Grandma told us that when she was a girl they talked about flying but it was imaginary. She never thought she'd see airplanes . She was able to fly on a jet back to England to visit relatives . 

    After Grandpa retired they would spend part of their summer on our farm. Here grandpa could garden to his heart's content as there was a large garden on the farm. He liked nothing better than to bring in fresh produce. Mom would tell Grandpa what she wanted and grandpa would harvest it. He was a handyman. One summer he painted the barn. He was not allowed to climb the ladder so the higher parts of the barn weren't painted. Dad had about 300 laying hens and grandpa loved looking after the chickens. One day grandpa didn't show up for lunch. A discussion was had and they thought he was gathering eggs just before lunch. They checked the chicken house but the door was fastened from the outside. Finally they heard Grandpa yelling. His grandson had seen the chicken house door not latched so he latched the door and that's how grandpa was locked in the chicken house and didn't make it in the house for lunch. His grandson received some teasing.

     When they were coming back to the prairies for parts of the summer, I was away and missed spending time with them. I had regrets but I was not living at home anymore . 

    It's hard to believe the many hardships this couple faced in their life. Their grandchildren certainly benefited from their hard work. 

     This photo was taken in the early 70's shortly before Grandma passed away. 



26 comments:

  1. Many folks worked so, so hard all their lives only a couple of generations ago. We have it easy in comparison.

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    1. They lived a physically challenging life.

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  2. You have some great stories/memories about your family. Take care, have a wonderful day!

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  3. Beautiful tribute to your Grandparents Red. Working folk of that generation really knew the meaning of hardwork. My late father in law loved the farm he worked all his life and when his son (my dear late husband) took over my father in law took over the large vegetable garden. He dug the whole garden with what he called his early winter dig just four days before he died - mid way through his lunch. He was in his early nineties and that is the way he would have chosen to go. I think about him often.

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  4. What great family memories of two hard working people. Great photo!

    They remind me of my mom’s parents who worked at the is-shore fishery and farming. They worked from dawn to dusk every day, except Sundays of course!

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    1. Your people lived a very tough life and it made them . Many went to the Artic and worked as traders for the Hudson Bay Co

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  5. Isn't that odd. For some reason I had assumed that you were from Eastern Europe, perhaps Ukraine. I know that many settlers have those kinds of origins, but perhaps they came a bit later.

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  6. I love to read about your family history, Red. It is amazing the things our ancestors went through to help get us where we are today. Wouldn't they be surprised at the changes we have seen?!

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    1. My great grandfather brought his family here so that they could remain Lutherans. I don't think any of us are Lutherans today.

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  7. I loved this post, Red! It is good to look back sometimes.

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  8. What a great tribute to your grandparents!

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  9. I'm glad that you were able to know your grandparents. Life was hard for many back then. It still is for too many people

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  10. Prior generations had a tougher life than we do today. And yet, we still complain about so many things. We should be grateful for what prior generations did that makes life better for us today.

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  11. People worked hard back then! You obviously have very fond memories

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  12. It was a different world back then. My grandparents on both sides worked long and hard. I'm sorry you couldn't spend more time with your grandparents.

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  13. Nice to have these stories of your grandparents -Christine cmlk79.blogspot.com

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  14. I thoroughly enjoyed reading about your grandparents, lovely memories!

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  15. I wish I had photos of my grandparents. I never met my grandfather from my mother's side of the family. It is nice to looks back at the memories. Have a great weekend.

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  16. Your grandpa was a very resourceful man, always finding something to support himself and his wife.

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  17. no matter how hard was life back then this is uplifting that couple supported each other forever and raised kids together .i loved most the photo you shared below .they look old and tired but they make awesome and lovely couple .
    i could not meet my paternal grandparents but i feel so blessed i could spent sometime with my maternal ones ,such a bliss

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  18. I enjoyed reading this post, Red. My grandparents were born and raised in England also. They came to the states with my dad and his siblings in 1920. I wish I knew more about their life before they came, but unfortunately they passed when I was very young. I know some stories that were told me, but that's all. My grandpa also had an interesting life. even ran a gunboat on the Persian Gulf at one time.

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  19. I'm glad you've written this all down for your kids. My grandparents all suffered greatly too so that the next generation could have it better. And my parents suffered too so that my brother and I could have an easier life. And now, here's our kids who I don't think realize how easy and lucky they were to have what they had.

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  20. It is good that you have a photo of them and some of their history!

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