I wished my wife a happy mother's day ...yesterday. I got ahead of myself.
for days like Mother's day and other days marking special occasions or people, I like to think of their origin and how it was celebrated when I was young. Yes , they were all celebrated when I was young and in many parts of the world . Mny of the origins are similar.
My Father felt that special days were rather artificial so he did not give them much importance. So very little notice of mother's day was noted in our home. Our mother deserved recognition as she worked very hard with limited resources. She was a farmer's wife and had very few conveniences. Rural areas thought of these days as related to urban people.
So I looked up the origins of Mother's day to see where it originated and when it began to be celebrated. As with most of these special days , the origin goes far back in history.
As I said before, my mother was hard working but not only that a very caring person. My Mother died when she was 59. I often think of her and how her life was shortened by cancer. The older I get the more I see what a strong caring person she was. I also see that many of my strong points come from her either by teaching or inheritance.
I was looking for another photo of Mom when she was older. So this will have to do when she was younger and spending most of her time looking after me.
Aw such a great old photo Red! Happy Mother's Day to your Micro Manager!
ReplyDeleteThanks. You're right that the photo is old.
DeleteI didn't know that you lost your mother so early in your lives. She sounds like a wonderful woman.
ReplyDeleteAt the time we thought she was old. Looking back we can see that she was very young. Three of her four sons are in their 80's.
DeleteA nice photo..a loving mother giving you the security to observe the world
ReplyDeleteFirst child and she was very happy.
DeleteI'm sorry you lost your mom when she was still reasonably young. She sounds like a very fine woman. I love her photo holding you. I can see the resemblance.
ReplyDeleteShe was a good person and did well against many odds and challenges.
DeleteIt is sad your Mother died so young, my mother passed away when she was 69. Love the photo of your Mom and you as a baby! Take care, enjoy your day and have a great week!
ReplyDeleteshe was a happy Mom.
DeleteGood memories even though long past.
ReplyDeleteWe never forget.
DeleteNice tribute to your mom, Red!
ReplyDeleteThanks.
DeleteOh, what a sweet photo, Red! She is looking at you with such love!
ReplyDeleteI read recently that there was Mothers' Day (1870) set up earlier than Mother's Day (1908). The first one was after the US Civil War and the Franco-Prussian War when writer and reformer Julia Ward Howe thought that "women must take control of politics from the men who had permitted such carnage." Of course the 1908 Mother's Day was set to celebrate mothers.
There's lots of good history surrounding Mother's day.
DeleteA sweet post!
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteWhat a lovely post, Red.
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteNice photo... I really enjoy it.
ReplyDeleteHonor Mother's Day.
We're celebrating it, and today I have a beautiful bouquet of flowers on my table...
a hug for you with warm regards.
Thank you Enjoy the day and whole year,
DeleteAlways nice to remember our moms!
ReplyDeleteEven though Mom has been gone a very long time we remember many things as she ran the household.
DeleteHow wonderful to hear of your mother and what a great person she was. My mother was a decade older when she died, but it was still too soon.
ReplyDeleteThey lived in a completely different age. Today there would be many things to treat both cancer and heart disease.
DeleteA lovely photo and a great rememberance.
ReplyDeleteWe have a few good family phots of the early part of our family life.
DeletePeople were so resourceful and persistent in those days and farming has always been a tough occupation. Women like your mum held the world together.
ReplyDeleteA lovely tribute, Red and I'm sorry you didnt get more time with her.
My mother and hers always called it "mothering Sunday". My mother also died far too soon of cancer, aged 62.
ReplyDeleteThat's a photo to treasure!
ReplyDeleteYou are lucky to have that photo. It’s a classic. Nice post and tribute to your mom.
ReplyDeletei agree with John you are lucky to have photo dear Red !
ReplyDeletea photo is way to relook that precious moment .i am lucky as well by the grace of God !
i see how your deep love reflects in your writing for your mother .it seems so natural that with age when we are less occupied with worldly responsibilities we miss more our parents ,mothers specially .may because they were the person who loved us most in this world and may be this is what we want to repay now through actions and tributes of words :)
this photo warms my heart ! such a sweet and beautiful photo !!!
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